Recently I remarked to my mother how I hated being a perfectionist. The next day she sent me an article she found online titled ’10 Tips to Help you Overcome Perfectionism’ or something like that. I read it over, and while the intention was sweet, the article did not help me at all. It basically … More Why it sucks being a Perfectionist
We understand the world through binary oppositions. I know that I am not a boy because I am a girl. I know that I am not black because I am white. I know that I am not gay because I am straight. Society has us place ourselves into these binaries – male, female, feminine, masculine, … More Heterosexuality and Binary Oppositions
I haven’t posted in here since March.. and it’s October in a few days. Ah, I can’t even use the excuse that I’ve been so busy.. I guess I just kind of forgot about this blog, because I do run another blog full time. I could have written in here so many times, but it … More What I Learned This Week // #1
So I recently heard about the release of Taylor Swift’s new music video for Wildest Dreams. I was so excited when this happened, because I’m a huge Tswift fan (since ’07) and Wildest Dreams is actually one of my favourite songs off her album. Although, I was a bit annoyed when they started playing it … More Is Taylor Swift’s New Music Video racist!?
Everybody wants something. You always want something. People often want things they cannot have. Perhaps knowing they can’t have it, makes them want it more. But sometimes, when they get that one thing they want, their minds can change. Humans always need to have desire or longing. Because once you get what you want, the … More The Desire Theory